Saying goodbye to a pet.
When you are facing a difficult decision, the Humane Society of Vero Beach
& Indian River County is here to help. We understand how devastating the loss
of a pet can be, and we can extend a warm embrace of support for you in your
times of grieving.
In particular, our chapel and memorial garden are available for you,
your
family, and your loved ones to provide a private refuge in your times of
need.
These facilities are offered free of charge.
In addition, should you face the need, we provide private euthanasia services
by appointment for a fee or $75.
Making the decision to euthanize?
Here are some questions to ask yourself…
Making the decision to euthanize is often harder than dealing with the
loss itself. Many people say they can accept the death and accompanying
sadness, but have great difficulty with being the one who must decide when
death will occur. Janice, whose 14-year-old dachshund was in steadily
declining health, said, “Each night I pray that when I wake up in the morning
I’ll find that Buster dies in his sleep. That way I won’t have to make the
decision I have been dreading.”
Janice’s admission reflects what many people feel as their animal companions
struggle against all odds. As you face the painful decision about euthanizing
your pet, let the following questions serve as your guide:
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Is there a reasonable chance for a cure? For comfort? |
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How much additional time might treatment give? What will the quality of
that time be? |
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Do I have the financial and emotional resources to handle long-term
medical care if it is required? |
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Will I have the necessary physical and emotional stamina? (Getting up at
night, preparing special food, giving shots…) |
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Is the relationship with my pet changing or decreasing in quality as I
anticipate this loss? |
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How many of my pet’s usual activities are still possible? Make a list
and review it on a regular basis. |
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Is my pet suffering even though physical pain is not evident? |
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What do I think my pet would want? |
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If I were in my pet’s place, what would I want? |
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What is my personal bottom line – what am I unable to tolerate and/or
live with? Write a contract with yourself, knowing that you can always
renegotiate. |
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Project yourself ahead in time and ask, “How will I look back and
remember this experience?” |
When a pet is suffering or has severely diminished quality of life and you
decide to euthanize, you are doing what you believe is best for your animal
friend. Let that thought remain uppermost in your mind as you face
your decision, and again as you look back on the action you took.
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